These are the ten bests posts I like on this blog, though not necessarily the ones looked at most often. They are in no particular order.
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Last Words to my Dying Grandma
It just so happens that this post IS the one most looked at. I look at Google search terms, and find that people google things about “death” “dying family member,” or “dying grandmother.” But it made this list because I wrote it immediately after it happened, and I can remember it so clearly when I read it. That’s actually a common theme of the posts I chose: they all call back memories so clearly or in such a unique way that I love them.
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The First Time I Walked On Trembling Feet – Wee One’s Birth Story
This day changed my life. Looking back, I can appreciate how I felt like I was on another plane – I wasn’t in my normal life, in my normal world. This was hyper-human, hyper-existent, if that makes sense. I was very alive that day.
- Daily Prompt: Memories for Sale. This was my very very very first blog post (May 16, 2013) and the prompt recalled a memory that was deeply buried: a melody my birth father often played on his trumpet. Since trumpet music is one of the very good associations I have of him, this is a treasured memory.
- No Hollaback Girl Here- 11 Tips for Fighting Street Harassers – This felt good to write and feels good to read. Actual concrete ideas for addressing street harassment, something that normally makes me feel so disempowered.
- A Deceiving Low-Down Dirty Deceiver – This is a memory I don’t often think of, and it’s fun.
- The Start of Something New – It was my first attempt at Gonzo style writing, and I wrote it drinking at a happy hour in a Mexican restaurant before I went to a friends house. It was great.
- The Jealous Dog song – This was a fun one to write. I don’t usually write like this, but it was fun and I like how it came out.
- Top Ten TV Shows or Movies – My very first Top 10! And I think everything on there would still make the top 10.
- My Impossible Girl – This is the first time I really considered the odds against which my Wee One came to be.
- A True Story of Thanks: Pay It Forward – Never Too Late – I’ve thought about this person a lot, and if I had the opportunity to talk to them, this is really what I would say.
Bonus post:
- What Would You Say To Your 10-Years-Ago Self? – I wish I could really go back and do this.